According to marriage and family counselor Dr. John Gottman, 69% of marriage conflicts are never solved. That means we are often having the same fight over and over again. Dr. Gottman, also studied couples on how they fight for over 16 years. He said, Now he can watch a couple for only 5 minutes & determine within 91% accuracy whether the couple will make it or if they will divorce. He said, it’s all in how you fight. It’s not “if” you fight, it’s “how” you fight.